Ok, so I still have not come out to anyone but my wife. And I am still boy mode at work and mostly at home. It's not perfect, perhaps it never will be. I have my health, a loving family and a roof over our heads. Despite my complaining, it isn't a bad life.
So, I sincerely hope that you all have a wonderful Christmas and a happy new year. I hope for you all, is that you get what you need and a little of what you wish for.
My wish is that you will find some of the peace on earth that this season often promises.